Favor

I love when we are reminded of something, when we see God's handiwork. It's like everything has come full circle.

I was talking with a friend this morning and it reminded me of this. What a good reminder for me! 

About 10 months ago, I started praying a new prayer I've never prayed before. I was asking for favor...for my kids and self, in the eyes of teachers, fellow students, employers, etc. There were big changes taking place in our lives, and I felt like this is something we really needed, especially considering we did not have a home church, or the close friends we once had in Georgia.

I've seen this favor take place in some friendships. A change of heart. The prayers coming for friends on the behave of my little family -- I can tell they are sincere and heartfelt. I can tell their hearts hurt for those of my children's. My kids have been blessed with amazing teachers this year. Seriously, every single one of them deserve a gold star; could not have asked for anyone better than the teachers they have. One of my college teachers (she is the teacher for 3 of my current classes) has been so amazing kind, helpful, patient with me. She has gone the extra mile to tutor me and explain things. She's available via e-mail, phone, or in person. I am so grateful to God for her. She has lent me encouraging words regarding my situation and efforts. She is the first teacher I've had to come along side me and help. For the first time I feel like I will actually (and finally!) graduate with my college degree. And for my kids and the fellow-student front, for the most part, things have also been going well. 

Those things alone are incredible and amazing, but one of the most important arenas for needing favor is the job front. As a mother in a town with no family to help, it's important I be able to still parent my children. If my kids need me during the day, I need to be able to be there for them. If I have to call out because a child is sick, I need to be able to do that without worrying if my job is on the line. I've had some harsh employers in the past. They've kind of scarred me. How I landed the job I currently have is a complete God-thing, and my boss is an answer to prayers. I've been impressed with her and how she runs things from the get-to. How she listens and cares about her employees. How prayer is involved in work meetings (I do work at a church daycare center). She has worked with me on days when my kids don't have school, allowing them to sit in the fellowship area, enabling me to be able to work. 

The other day, she said something to me about "you're a mom first" and I was like, DID YOU JUST SAY THAT? I've had so many employers straight up tell me that my job should come first, period. And those same people had kids of their own! I may stay at this job forever just because of my amazing boss. ;) 

So back to this morning, I was telling my friend about my prayer for favor. And it hit me! God has totally answered it! Look at all the things above and specifically, my job. I mean, wow! I love when seeing things come full circle. We start with a hope and prayer and with time and through trials, God is faithful. This lets me know He saw a need for this in our lives and look how He provided! Amazing!